fix: update default disabledBehavior on RAC TableProps

[abeljohn]

Closes #9040

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[snowystinger]

Thanks for the PR.

I think it's been using this default for a long time now. It's probably better to update the jsdocs to reflect the actual default than to change the behaviour on everyone who hasn't explicitly set the behaviour.

[abeljohn]

makes sense @snowystinger, I've updated the JSDoc instead