[CELEBORN-2241] Memory swap instead of memory copy

[mcdull-zhang]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Improve performance by using memory swapping instead of memory copying.

Optimization results: The table below shows the shuffle write time for TPCH 1TB.

	SortBasedShuffleWriter	HashBasedShuffleWriter
Before	615.44W ms	502.31W ms
After	442.47W ms	434.77W ms

Note: This is the result of multiple optimizations combined;
other optimizations will be submitted as pull requests in the future.

Why are the changes needed?

Improve performance by reducing memory copying.

Does this PR resolve a correctness bug?

NO

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

NO

How was this patch tested?

Existing Unit Tests.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 67.21%. Comparing base (ffff5bb) to head (ef3c308).
⚠️ Report is 16 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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